H1N1 Vaccine Conundrum

A friend of mine posted a FoxTV Video that profiled an infectious disease doctor who recommended against the H1N1 vaccine because of thimerisol's potential impact.  The reporter mentioned that the three other doctors he's met with recommended the vaccine - 3:1 for the vaccine, but the one on TV (and YouTube) is the naysayer. My friend who posted the video is not vaccinating for H1N1.  Another friend is waiting for the first month of vaccinations to be over to then vaccinate her child.  My eldest was vaccinated this week with the flu mist.

 

I believe that with the flu vaccines, this is really a parent's preference and appetite for risk.
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Roadtrip - Game on!

We're planning an 18 hour roadtrip to reach our favorite ski destination this year. We'll likely be traveling with 7 people - and three are my kids.  To make it a success, we decided that we will buy a gaming system for the car only. Since neither of us are gaming console afficiados, I've been researching what system we should acquire for the car.

Our criteria:

  • Must be multi-player games - we don't want the kids to be heads down lost in a PSP or a DS.  Plus, we want the gaming system to live in the car - only to come on after one hour of good behavior.
  • Should not encourage them to smack each other
  • Large library of not exhorbitant games appropriate for kids under 10

Obviously - must be car friendly for installation and durability.

I visited Best Buy, Audio Sounds, Toys R Us and GameStop.  No comparison in terms of useful information.  The first three told me that I could probably use a WII (I think it's cute and fun) but that any system would do.  GameStop was truly informed. 

The Nintendo WII

Very cute, age appropriate - but the WII just isn't a car gaming system - too many of the games require movement and are seriously less fun without movement.  If we wanted to have the system in the house and car, then we could have only the most sedentary WII games, but it would be silling to spend that much money on a system and on the games if it's only purpose is sedentary play.

The XBox 360

This is an excellent gaming console - but for older children. The games are expensive, complicated and often violent.  It can play movies - but we have DVD players in the car that are embedded into the screens - so we don't need that feature. It also doesn't like being shook up all that much and should be installed in such a way that it won't bounce.

The PS3

This is also a mature gaming console - with wireless controllers that will make the car less cluttered.  The games are as expensive, complicated and violent as the XBox 360.  We don't own BlueRay discs, so that's not valuable either. It does apparently travel better than the XBox.

The PS2

We have a winner!  The console is value-priced - appropriate for a car-only system for our young kids.  The games are abundant and there are plenty that are priced low because they're pre-owned, but fine. There are wireless consoles available (we bought two wireless consoles). It's hardy - you can toss it around on the floor of the car and it won't complain. Sony is committed to one more year of PS2 support AND GameStop is committed to another year after that.

By the time there's limited support for the PS2, the next generation of systems will be available and we can revisit, if necessary, what console to put in the car.  Personally, we had an Atari 2600 in the basement when I was a kid and that was our only gaming system for 10 years.  I suspect my kids will be using the PS2, in the car on roadtrips, for a long, long time. But don't tell them - they won't even see the system and initial games until Hanukkah - when they find out it's in the car!

 

Dumping the junk

I received a terrific volume of suggestions for how to donate the toys in good shape that my children have outgrown - thank you!  But I still have a problem...there are toys that are not in good shape and need to be thrown away.  Option one, throw them in the trash.  This is so 1970, right?  But the trash will take them and put them in a landfill.  My great-grandchildren will be able to excavate them since plastic doesn't break down.

I just want to find a way to recycle them.  Not donate - they're not worthy

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Recycling Advice Needed

I'm stumped.  I have three or four bags of baby toys and other toddler toys that are in reasonably good shape. These bags have set down roots in my house because I don't know where to responsibly get rid of them.  They are made of plastic and wood.  They should not be in the trash and in a landfill - but I don't know how to get rid of them. What have you found that works? I've tried:
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Cancer's in the Family - a how-to guide

I cried this morning on the elliptical machine as I worked out watching Brother's & Sisters on TiVo.  One of the sisters tells her family that she has stage-3 lymphoma and the show did a great job of capturing what that's really like for her and her family.  I know - I've been on the receiving end of that news a few times.  This is Breast Cancer Awareness month - so here's a Top Ten most important things to do when you find out that cancer's in the family.
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The Second Baby Surprise

Planned or not, parents know a lot more about what to expect when their second child is born.  After all, you did alright with the first one, right?  So you know you'll eventually sleep again, someday they'll stop crying and that either breast or bottle will nourish them.  You may not believe it, but you are capable of loving another being as much as you love your first - it's amazing.

What's not amazing are some of the surprises.

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Reading and disappearing books

First things first, I am a huge advocate of reading to your kids. I have two boys who can read -- they are 9 and 6 -- and who have been reading for awhile. The big one will read several books a week on his own. The little one is just starting to do that. But my husband and I still read to each of them every night before bed. We've been doing this since they've been born, and I think for all of us it's some of the best time of the day.
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Jack in the Box and other problems

Children push limits and personally, I'm very glad that they do.  Learning that it's safe to push limits encourages children to explore and experiment.  The catch is that they have to learn where the actual limit is - especially if it has to do with their safety and health.  One limit every child likes to push is waking up in the middle of the night to engage Mom and/or Dad.
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Nature, Nurture and Purpose - what I learned from a talk with Michael Gurian

Our school, Ronald C Wornick Jewish Day School, is part of Common Ground - an association of 24 private Bay Area schools that bring in luminary speakers on education and parenting.  I was thrilled that my first Common Ground event was a conversation with Michael Gurian - author of 25 books on the minds of boys and girls and the requisite learning needs of each.   He discussed the challenge facing teachers and schools to train and teach to the distinct needs of male and female brains.
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